If you’ve never tried using a pillow to elevate your sex game, this is your sign to try! Adding a pillow under your hips, back, leg, or side can be a game changer if you know what we mean. So let’s get to it, how can we spice up intimacy with our pillows?

Heightened Missionary

Lay on your back with 1-2 pillows underneath the bottom of your back so that your hips are angled upward and your legs fall to the side. This angle is really good for hitting your G-spot or prostate!

Secure Spoon

For the Secure Spoon, lay on your sides just like you would when you cuddle. Once you’re settled, grab a pillow and put it between your legs. It not only helps with aligning the spine and back pain, but it will also give your partner a little more room to get extra deep!

Elevated Doggie Style

Get on all fours and grab 2 big pillows to put under your tummy. Lay down on your pillows and let your and your partner’s hips meet from behind. The position is basically the same as the traditional doggie style, but with the extra pillows, you stay elevated and don’t get pushed down as easily, making for a much more comfortable and consistent movement.

Bull Rider

Love riding on top? Give yourself a lift and your thighs a break! Have your partner lie down and put 1-2 pillows under the arch of their back. Hop on top and ride! You’ll find riding takes less energy and strain and you’re also able to get much closer and deeper.

Enjoy!

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